12 tips, when and where to have sex

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It's polite to have sex in silence if you live with a roommate, are a guest at an acquaintance's house, or share a room with your children. But that doesn't mean you have to give up sex altogether. In fact, regular sex will help you and your partner bond more. And even if discreet sex is a must, you can still make sex more enjoyable.

1. Tips to help you have sex in peace Quiet sex doesn't mean it's not passionate. The next time you start having sex, you can try some of these tips:
1.1 Find a time when sex doesn't affect other people What is the best time to have a relationship? Your sex will have little effect on others if done while everyone is asleep. You can start your sex life in the middle of the night or early in the morning - when everyone is asleep.
1.2 Initiating "love" in the shower "Sex" in the shower is low-noise for everyone, as long as you use a shower large enough for both of you to bathe. Thanks to the sound of water, you can ignore your own sounds. However, be careful not to slip and fall to avoid unexpected injury.
1.3 Avoid having sex in bed The bed is a great place to sleep, but it can make all kinds of noises that annoy you. To avoid the noise from the squeaky spring mattress, you can start "making love" on the floor. While it may not be as comfortable as in bed, you can add a few “accessories” like blankets or pillows to make it more comfortable.
1.4 Change the location of the couple's activities If the problem that you are wondering about is that your bedroom is located next to other bedrooms, making it easy to affect other people's activities, you can choose the location relationship position is another space - besides the bedroom. You can prevent your children, relatives or guests from hearing this private matter by finding a new place such as: Library, recreation room, basement,... - secret rooms secret that you can close the door.

1.5 Making other noises Making other noises can give you more flexibility about what other sounds you make during sex. During the day, you can play the music a little louder. At night, you can turn on the white noise machine, turn on the TV or turn on the music, etc. Of course, you also need to pay attention to the loudness of the sounds you emit.
1.6 Always keep a pillow on hand Pillows are a great support friend when you want to scream but have to hold back. If that feels a bit odd, you can use a tie or handkerchief, loosely tied around your mouth. These accessories help you avoid involuntary cries, increasing stimulation for you and your partner.
1.7 Sex or oral sex Silent sex is a great opportunity to break your habits. You can avoid sounds like bumping, bumping by focusing on the act of external sex or oral sex.

2. The position to have sex in silence In addition to the question of when is the best time to have sex, the relationship position is also a matter of interest to many readers. You can avoid affecting the people around you with the following postures:
2.1 Position 6 - 9 This is the position to keep your mouth "busy" and less need to do push-ups - It also means that you are less likely to shake the bed. You can try 1 person lying on top - 1 person lying on the bottom or 2 people lying side by side.
2.2 Hug Lying on your side and facing is an extremely intimate and quiet sex position. In this position, you will not have to push too fast, avoiding creating loud noises. Alternatively, you and your partner can kiss or whisper sweet words in each other's ears.
2.3 Sitting With this position, out of the two of you, the male will sit straight below, the female will sit with legs apart. This is the position that helps the two of you get as close as possible and have a quiet relationship with less noise.
2.4 Scissor With this sex position, each person will lie on one end of the bed and rub their genitals together. This is a position that doesn't allow you to move much so it won't make a lot of noise in bed, but it feels very intense.
2.5 Doggy Lying In this position, both of you lie on your stomach, one on top of the other. If your back is low, you can place a pillow under your belly.

3. How to have sex in silence? Make your time with your husband and wife more quiet and peaceful with these simple instructions:
Talk to each other: For some people, being eavesdropped is very enjoyable. But for others, it can be stressful. Before having sex, you should talk to your partner about your hobbies; Breathing through the nose: Inhaling and exhaling through the nose makes less sound than inhaling and exhaling through the mouth. At the same time, breathing through the nose also helps you breathe more deeply, activating the diaphragm, abdominal muscles and pelvic floor to increase the feeling of intimacy; Look into each other's eyes: Looking into each other's eyes not only stimulates a sense of closeness, but also helps you to be more accountable to each other; Take it slow: Sex in silence becomes more intense as you have sex slowly; Kissing: “Locking lips” is the perfect way to avoid making noise when having sex. You can also try covering your partner's mouth to prevent them from making too loud sounds; Focus on sensations: When you have to limit movement to avoid making noise, it's easier to focus on how you feel. You will notice that even the smallest movements trigger intense pleasures. When both people work together, when is the best relationship is not a difficult question to answer. Silent sex is very enjoyable. It also facilitates intimacy between the two of you, especially when you're in a space that doesn't have much privacy (next to a child's, parent's, or roommate's room).
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