Is it possible to have sex when the newborn is in the same room as the parents?

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The only thing you only share with your partner and not with anyone else is sex. It is an important part of married life. Not only that, but sex also requires a deeper level of communication that you don't do with anyone but your partner. It requires both of you to confide in each other about feelings, about intimacy of mind and body. So can parents have sex when the newborn is in the same room?

1. The role of sex in marriage

In fact, it is rare for a couple to go through time with the same passion for love as in the beginning. Over time, your sex life is also affected.
Many things are lost in a long journey of relationships, among them are restraint, sense of humor and more than that of sexual desire. Maybe it's luck or some other abnormality that there are couples who still have the same passion for each other as when they first became married. However, in reality, most couples after getting married, having children, their sex life will be affected quite a lot and there will be changes, in fact this can be traced back to when couples sink into a relationship. other concerns such as children, money and age.
Studies show that as we age, we seem to have less sex. According to the most recent Sexual Happiness Survey (SWS), the average British person has sex at least 127 times a year and the average married person has sex about 98 times a year.

The only thing you only share with your partner and not with anyone else is sex. So sex is also the only thing that sets you and your partner apart from the status quo of roommates. It is an important part of marriage.
Not only that, but sex also requires a deeper level of communication that you don't normally do with anyone. Talking requires both to confide in each other about all feelings, about intimacy. For example, to have a really intimate night with your partner, you need to tell your partner where you want to be touched and possibly suggest some action as well. This can only happen when you both feel a level of comfort with each other that you've never felt with anyone else before. Both must be very sensitive when asking, when giving and receiving. Your trust in your partner must reach a certain depth, that he or she will be willing to respond to your demands and be non-judgmental.
Passion for your marriage is created when you talk about intimate issues and physical touches with your partner. That tells that person, you have put him above the level of friends. You think of the relationship between two people as something deeper. Sex is the factor that helps couples create the most powerful and effective vibration, passion and romance.
What matters when it comes to sex is not how many times you have sex. Sex should become an intimate experience and bring the two of you closer together. Otherwise, sex is only seen as an obligation to return cards, then their marriage cannot be said to be happy.

So instead of arguing about sex and creating distance between the two of you, couples need to learn how to really talk about it. To listen to what your partner wants, feels and needs, this is not only the recipe for a bed party but also the recipe for a happy marriage, they also need to learn how to open their hearts to Listen to what your partner wants, feels, and needs.
An active sex life will help couples bond stronger together. It improves intimacy, reassurance, enough for both parties to accomplish what they want and need. In fact, it has been proved that lack of sex is the factor that destroys marriage. If they maintain a passionate and enduring love relationship, couples, especially men, will live longer, happier lives. A healthy sex life is one of the most important factors in a successful marriage.
According to experts, sex is a vital ingredient in a relationship, but it's not always done. Couples just need to know about those intimate moments when they can share with each other and bond them together.
Therefore, if you already have a similar character, then try to be sexually similar, or conversely, give in, improve your personality to avoid conflicts, make married life gradually become easier. should be more perfect.

2. Is it possible to have sex when the newborn baby is in the same room as the parents?

You and your partner can have sex while your child sleeps in the parent's room. Because after having children, if you want to find a real time and space for two people, it is very difficult, especially when children are young.
If your baby is safely placed on one side of the bed or in a crib or crib, preferably while he's asleep so you won't be distracted, sex shouldn't pose a problem. Newborns aren't likely to realize what you're doing, but if that makes you feel better, have them turn away from you.
There are no studies to show that a child who sees his or her parents having sex will suffer psychological damage. Interestingly, children raised with frequently nude parents who changed clothes and bathed in front of the children were said to have healthier thoughts about sex.
You will know when your baby is too old to be around you while you have sex. In general, when they're old enough to wonder what's going on and question whether your sounds and actions are loving or aggressive (kids often mistake sex for fighting), it's time to ask. Find a more private space.
Having a healthy sex life makes you a happier parent. That means you need to be selfish about your sex life. If your child is taking a nap, seize that opportunity to spend some alone time with your partner.

But if the idea upsets you, try to be quiet and quick (this means lots of foreplay) or change your location. Try having sex in other places in your home (kitchen, bathroom, closet, etc.). Keep in mind that if you're hesitant to have sex "in front of" your child, this will make you uncomfortable. In general, you will experience less irritation, less lubrication.
To avoid that situation, be frank with your husband about your hesitations. If you just say no to sex, he might interpret it as a relationship problem. Remember that the more you share with your partner, the better your sex life will become.
Marriage without sex is very dangerous. Therefore, the husband and wife relationship is one of the indispensable issues in married life, it is a factor that determines whether your marriage is long-lasting and happy or not. If someone says: marriage does not need sex or is not so important in married life, you should not believe it. Listen to your heart and feelings.
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Reference sources: babycenter.com, parents.com