When your daughter turns 12: What you and your baby need to know

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12-year-old girls may have entered puberty with rapid physical and mental changes. Therefore, the family needs to make sure to grasp the things that worry the child in order to give the necessary advice.

1. What are the changes in puberty in 12-year-old girls?


When a 12-year-old girl reaches puberty, her growth spurt will begin. If the child has not yet reached puberty at this stage, soon the child will begin to enter this stage. Accordingly, 12-year-old girls entering puberty will have the following tell-tale signs:
Height grows rapidly Hips expand and waist narrows Chest begins to grow Hair growth in the private area, under the arms and on legs Thanks to hormone changes, everything on a 12-year-old girl's body will change rapidly. Emotional changes in 12-year-old girls can surprise parents. Children can have mixed emotions. The feeling of being able to do everything but feeling like you can't. The feeling of wanting to be cuddled but then refusing. During puberty, children will need your support a lot, so parents should always be there when children need to promptly give the right advice.
The brain will not stop maturing until the child is 20 years old. The prefrontal cortex helps with impulse control and organizational skills (planning, reasoning, and problem-solving), but they still take years before they're fully developed. But now children can express feelings and thoughts in abstract terms, concepts like justice, equality, politics and citizenship. They are also better at problem solving and logical thinking. Planning and thinking about the consequences can still be a challenge for 12-year-old girls.
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Con gái 12 tuổi đã có sự phát triển vòng ngực
Con gái 12 tuổi đã có sự phát triển vòng ngực

2. Social communication in 12-year-old girls


12-year-old girls are in a period of strong cognitive development. This is a time of transitions and contradictions. Children see themselves as the center of the universe but spend a lot of time with friends. Children are in their period but really want to mingle with everyone.
At the age of 12 girls, you can help them learn how to make the right decisions. Recall the child's good decisions at school or elsewhere, and then question the child's thought process and listen. This will help increase the child's self-esteem when making more difficult decisions.
Increased social interaction means exposure to more peer pressure. At this stage children can discuss topics of social media, tobacco, alcohol, drugs and sex. The family may have talked to the child about these topics, but the child's way of thinking will constantly change. Therefore, you should ask your child what he is seeing and feeling about these topics. Role-play some situations where children may find it difficult to make decisions and remind them of the boundaries and consequences of bad decisions.
Sensitivity and tantrums are more frequent than normal in 12-year-old girls. It is different from depression, which occurs when a child is no longer interested in favorite activities, agitation, restlessness, neglect of appearance. If the child shows the above symptoms, the family should take the child to the doctor.
Causes of depression in 12-year-old girls may be due to substance use, eating disorders or self-harm. Besides depression, these behaviors can also cause mental illnesses such as anxiety disorders.
MORE: Monitor children's social media usage

Con gái 12 tuổi có khả năng bị rối loạn lo âu dẫn đến trầm cảm
Con gái 12 tuổi có khả năng bị rối loạn lo âu dẫn đến trầm cảm

3. The level of social media use of 12-year-old girls

Children's exposure to social media is just as important as it is to real life. At the age of 12, children have many ways to avoid family control. Therefore, it is important that you keep the conversation going about using social media safely. Talk to your kids about how they should present themselves on social media and its impact on college applications and future jobs. Educate your kids on safe social media use, check their accounts and talk to them about what they share on the internet.
When girls are 12 years old, they have independent thoughts and enter puberty and develop height. Therefore, parents need to find out information about their child's development during this period to accompany and share with their children to help them be confident and develop the most comprehensively. Besides, parents also do not forget to let their children have regular health check-ups to control general health problems and intervene when necessary.
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Reference source: webmd.com
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