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Changes in men's thinking as well as men's needs or male sexual health can improve or decrease your sex life. Therefore, you need to recognize seven common mistakes that men often make and need to avoid making these mistakes.
1. Mistake <br/>1: Sex starts in the bedroom
Dr. Ian Kerner - Sex Therapist, said: Men fall in love too quickly like just flipping a switch and the lights will go on, but for women, the arousal does not happen so quickly.
Foreplay should start with hugging, kissing, holding hands and sharing feelings together and she'll appreciate it if you do.
Feeling safe and protected in a relationship is key for a woman to indulge in sex, Kerner says. A long hug can go further than you think. For 30 seconds when you two hold each other, it stimulates oxytocin, which is the hormone in women that induces feelings of connection and trust.
2. Mistake <br/>2: Confidently knowing all she wants
Kerner says that today many women are pretending to have orgasms like 20 or 30 years ago.
So, if she doesn't get pleasure in it, a man needs to realize this and don't hesitate to ask his partner how she really feels? Or does she want to do something different?
In other words, this is similar to asking for directions, if asked correctly will help you two reach your destination faster.
Phụ nữ cần đạt cực khoái trong quan hệ tình dục
3. Mistake <br/>3: Sticking to the plan
Sex therapist Sari Cooper has pointed out the mistake of many men that “if it works the first three times, it will work the next”. There are many factors that can affect the quality of love, such as depending on her mood and monthly cycle... Therefore, psychologist Lonnie Barbach advised men to pay attention to their partners. Try different things and see how she responds.
4. Mistake <br/>4: Focusing too much on your body
Guys if they expand the idea of foreplay further. Some men focus only on physical stimulation, Kerner says, and often ignore mental stimulation.
While men are aroused by what they see, women love to fantasize a lot when having sex and this is also part of the arousal process that creates pleasure.
Bỏ qua màn dạo đầu là một sai lầm khi quan hệ của nam giới
5. Mistake <br/>5: Thinking that having sex will give her an orgasm
For women, if they do sex alone, 80% will not be able to achieve orgasm. The reason for this is that most sex positions do not directly stimulate a woman's clitoris.
There are other ways to make her climax . Women get orgasm more consistently from oral sex than intercourse, says Kerner, and also, try having sex in a "riding" position or using a vibrator designed for women. couples use in relationships.Kerner also emphasized that men should also feel more comfortable and open when their partners use sex toys.
6. Mistake <br/>6: Skipping the Seduction Step
Women love to be attractive men. Cooper says that flirting plays a role as important as or even more important than sex skills.
This will suggest to men how she likes to be started, for example verbally over the phone or text message, visual or emotional, cuddling at a bar or other place.
Phụ nữ thích được cánh mày râu quyến rũ bằng các hành động lời nói âu yếm
7. Mistake <br/>7: Focusing only on sensitive points
Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, but it's more complicated than you think.
Cooper Cooper said that some men do not fully understand the anatomy of the clitoris. The nerve endings of the clitoris spread throughout the vulva and inside the vagina. All are potential pleasure spots worth exploring.
It should be noted that, if you focus too much on the glans or the vulva, it can deprive some women of pleasure. It is very sensitive, if too much stimulation can hurt and she will not achieve orgasm.
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Reference source: theasianparent.com, webmd.com
