My mother has gallstones, elevated liver enzymes, acute pancreatitis, and the size of the stone bag is 18mm. My mother is being treated at the hospital, but the doctor did not specify the treatment method. The doctor asked me if I had to have surgery? What is the treatment for gallstones?

I have a 17x31mm gallstone, occupying most of the gallbladder, no pain, no fever. So the doctor asked me to ask if men with gallstones 17x31mm should have surgery? Some people say that taking male medicine the stones will wear away, according to the doctor, should I use it?