When your son is 10 years old: What you and your baby need to know

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10-year-old boy is the period of pre-puberty, children often tend to explore and prove to their parents that they are more mature. At this stage, children have changed from body to thinking. Therefore, parents need to understand the psychology of their children to raise them well.

1. Physical fitness of a 10-year-old boy


10-year-old boy can be about 1.2 - 1.5 m tall, weighing from 29 - 40 kg. Babies can grow up to 10cm a year and on average about 5cm until puberty starts.
Your child's balance and stamina are getting stronger and stronger. Team sports skills are also getting better, and your child can use certain tools and perform activities that require attention to detail, such as painting.
10-year-old boys will have a lot of energy and should be physically active for at least 1 hour a day. Your child's diet should be high in fruits and vegetables, low in fat, and low in sugar and salt. Time spent watching TV or playing with electronic devices should be limited to 2 hours or less per day. Some of your son's permanent teeth are still coming in at this age, especially the closest ones.

2. Brain Development


10-year-old boy's brain continues to develop. At this point, some kids enjoy schoolwork and others don't, and interests can change quickly. Your child's attention span is increasing and his judgment is also improving.
Many 10-year-olds have mastered reading and writing skills, as well as speaking clearly. Your child is developing critical and abstract thinking skills, can follow detailed instructions, plan and reason on different issues. They will be able to read and understand more complex books, with math topics, including fractions, word problems, and multiplication and division of long numbers.
Children's curiosity is increasing, leading to asking a lot of questions about the world around them. 10-year-old boys begin to express more creativity when writing, designing or performing arts. Some children also gradually develop a hobby or collect things.
Your stubborn 10-year-old son is now also beginning to understand how his behavior affects others, recognizes and considers the opinions and views of others, and is conscious about what is right and wrong, just or unjust.

Bộ não của bé trai 10 tuổi tiếp tục phát triển với sự sáng tạo và sở thích riêng
Bộ não của bé trai 10 tuổi tiếp tục phát triển với sự sáng tạo và sở thích riêng

3. Relationships around children


Although the 10-year-old son is stubborn, he is still attached to his parents. Besides, your child will begin to build stronger relationships with classmates, and pressure from school is also increasing at this age.
Most of a 10-year-old boy's friends are other boyfriends, but he may also care a lot about girlfriends. Friendship is largely based on shared interests. Loyalty to teams, clubs or associations grows very strong. At this age, your child will enjoy sports and board games more than the games they imagined as a child.
As better physical skills are developed, competitive situations and conflicts with siblings or friends of 10-year-olds will occur more often. Closer to puberty, children are also prone to mood swings, becoming more sensitive or often depressed, or self-conscious about their bodies.
10-year-old boys still tend to see adults as authority figures, so will strictly follow the rules and accept the family's beliefs. However, some children also become suspicious, seeing older children as role models and conscious of what others think of them.

4. Children's health in this period


Things to keep in mind when having your son's annual health checkup are:
Height and weight Vision and hearing Physical and behavioral development Immunization records, ensuring that your child is Fully vaccinated, on schedule. In addition, your doctor will ask you some questions to assess your risk of later diseases, such as tuberculosis, high blood cholesterol, and anemia.

5. How to teach a 10-year-old boy

Faced with changes in their children's pre-pubertal age, many parents do not know how to behave, wondering how to teach their 10-year-old son appropriately. Here are some suggestions:
Caring for others The 10-year-old son is the time to have a deep understanding of kindness, sympathy, and how to show concern for others through actions and words. Parents should not only teach their children theory, but create conditions for them to practice, by going to charity, giving gifts to the elderly and orphans, sharing with the needy, giving in to the children.. You can also encourage your child to imagine, to put himself in the shoes of others to feel. If a child says "I don't know", don't be disappointed. Instead, suggest and ask for more details for your child to think and absorb.

Con trai 10 tuổi cần được cha mẹ dạy về việc quan tâm người khác
Con trai 10 tuổi cần được cha mẹ dạy về việc quan tâm người khác

Practice patience Your stubborn 10-year-old son will hate being reminded a lot, and theories will not work. Therefore, parents should experience with their children so that they can quickly and deeply understand the essence of the problem. For example, when your child does a difficult assignment and keeps asking you, don't rush to answer, but ask your child to read the question carefully, analyze the main idea, step by step to find the solution until the final result. Patience is a good virtue for a 10-year-old boy, creating a foundation so that when he gets older he can persist in pursuing his goals, even in difficult times.
Practice independence 10-year-old boy is no longer a baby for you to cuddle, pamper and protect. At this age, children can be independent in many things, especially personal tasks and help parents with housework. Let your children schedule their own study, clean their own room... Even though they can't do it quickly and are clumsy, you still have to let them do it, to avoid complacency. If the child has a harsh reaction, refuses to do it, parents should still patiently create a habit until the child accepts it. Just like when your child asks to come home late, ask the reason and be flexible to accept or not depending on the case. Studies show that if parents give their children more freedom and responsibility, children will learn virtues faster.

Determine goals Finally, parents do not let their children grow up living without purpose, without striving. Teach your 10-year-old son to set goals by encouraging him to dream and pursue his passion from an early age. Do not change your child's goals, because changing everything for him will make him dependent on you. When knowing how to identify goals, 10-year-old boys will know how to strive and overcome difficulties to complete their tasks.
10 years old is a period when children develop strongly both physically and mentally, so parents should spend a lot of time talking and caring to understand and have the most effective parenting methods.

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Reference source: .webmd.com
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