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A 17-year-old girl is at the end of her transition period, from childhood to adulthood. Children are still changing, developing emotionally, learning more deeply about themselves and the world around them. Here's what parents and 17-year-old girls need to know.
1. Overview
17-year-old girls' physical changes will slow down, they also gradually understand their bodies better. Now 17-year-old girls are all menstruating and will reach full adult height.
Mentally, a 17-year-old girl will think like an adult, able to focus on future plans. Your child's goals will be more realistic, accompanied by better ideas about the role model he wants to be in the future.
Emotionally, a 17 year old girl will be more independent than ever, but probably still facing a lot of ups and downs in her teenage years. Like adults, teenagers can experience depression. Seeing your baby upset for more than 2 weeks is not normal and should be considered by a specialist.
Socially, adult children can easily resist pressure from school and society, preferring to spend time with friends rather than family. However, children still have to follow the rules of their parents. Clearly inform your child of the consequences of breaking the rules.
2. Dating and sex
Your 17 year old daughter is probably thinking a lot about dating and sex. Adult children begin to understand the give and take in their romantic relationships, and feel that the happiness of their loved one is just as important as their own. Children will be more aware of their sexual orientation (straight, gay, bisexual, etc.) and are more likely to have initiated sex. Parents can help with problem solving by talking about sex and:
Contraception Voluntary, non-coerced or threatened What to do in unsafe situations Transmitted diseases sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) What to expect if you become pregnant.
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3. Body image
Teenage girls can be very concerned about their looks, especially their weight. Gaining body fat is normal in teenage girls. But some kids don't feel comfortable with this and try to get rid of the fat anyway. Teens who participate in dance (eg ballet, dancesport,...) or other sports (eg gymnastics, skating, track and field,...) are at risk of tangling eating disorder is very high. Because this is a group of subjects who easily feel pressured when they have to "squeeze" or change their body shape to meet the "standard".
You can help your 17-year-old girl avoid eating disorders by talking to her about:
Healthy eating Treat food as fuel for daily activities, not a part of your diet. rewards for comfort The dangers of unscientific dieting or mindless eating when bored/happy Related information in magazines, TV or the internet If you notice signs of a disorder eating and drinking, talk to your daughter, and make an appointment with your doctor for a check-up.
4. Alcohol and Drugs
As adults go out into the world and are exposed to more things, they may encounter teenagers who drink or use drugs. In Western countries, an estimated one in four children aged 12-17 have used drugs. Between 16 and 18 is the peak age for these evil activities. Talk openly with your 17-year-old daughter about substance abuse. It's best to be an example to your child about not smoking, drinking heavily, or using drugs.
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5. Internet and social media
Your 17 year old daughter has never known a world without internet. Parents need to educate their children on how to stay safe online. Make sure a 17-year-old girl:
Knows how to control the privacy of her profile online Avoid posting personal information such as phone numbers and addresses Use strong passwords that cannot be easily guessed by others. Notify your parents if your child receives text messages from people they don't know. Avoid sending private photos or videos to your friends or you don't want them to be leaked to the world.
6. Plan for the future
Preparing to enter the age of 18 - an important milestone in life, young adults stand majors and careers for the future. Therefore, the psychology of a 17-year-old girl is also full of uncertainties, wondering about the right direction for herself.
If your child is an emotional girl, has artistic talent or likes classic works, parents can direct her to jobs and fields of entertainment related to entertainment, giving priority to acting schools. member, artist...
If a 17-year-old girl is good at numbers, calculations or strategic planning, then business schools would be a smart choice. If your child is a person who loves beauty and has good taste, opening a clothing store or becoming a designer can be the optimal solution. A 17-year-old girl personality will choose a job as a graphic designer, unskilled worker or overcome challenges and risks like men.
Don't worry when your daughter doesn't really believe in her choice, is still confused. Let things happen naturally. The future will be in the palm of your hand if you are always confident, full of enthusiasm with the youthful energy you have.
Your 17-year-old daughter is at the borderline between adulthood and clumsiness, leading to a state of confusion, difficulty in decisions from small to large. Discovering the psychological disorders of adult children will help parents and children avoid trouble, as well as eliminate problems at the earliest.
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Reference source: webmd.com
