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After having a baby, it's hard for a couple to have private moments together. No one understands this better than experienced mothers and fathers, that what is the reason for them to be able to keep the flame in their marriage relationship, especially when there is a baby, family life will be different? When you become extremely busy, there are times when you even feel like you are exhausted. Here are some of the best tips for you as new parents.
1. Don't limit love to the bedroom
Instead of having sex in the bedroom like before the baby, now you and your partner can do it in the car, or on the couch while the baby is sleeping or anywhere as long two people feel comfortable. Having sex in other locations can increase the thrill, which can help improve your sex life.
Các cặp vợ chồng có thể thay đổi địa điểm quan hệ tình dục
2. Improve the relationship between husband and wife
Not sex, just by small actions, you can still improve the relationship between husband and wife after giving birth.
Sex is one of the important factors to help heal and improve the couple's relationship. However, your sex life is not always sublimated. There are many ways to have fun if you don't have time for a good sex, especially after having a baby. There are other factors that are equally important, making married life more passionate.
After having a baby, a couple should especially talk to each other more often and about all sorts of issues. We can share everything with each other such as stories about work, difficulties in taking care of children....Each story that the couple shares will contribute to rekindling and warming. more emotional.
3. Take advantage of nap time
When your baby naps, it's the right time for the two of you to spend some alone time together. Of course, if you lack sleep too much, you should take advantage of this period to rest. But it's important not to spend all of your baby's sleeping time doing housework. Dirty dishes and dishes can be left for later, you should spend time with your partner. This is a way to warm up the feelings of both of you, which will also make you happier, less tired everyday.
Tranh thủ thời gian bé ngủ trưa để cải thiện quan hệ vợ chồng
4. Give each other romantic moments
Once your baby is asleep, uncork the bottle of wine, dim the lights, and enjoy a classic chat with your partner. This elicits feelings of lust from yourself and your partner. It also reminds you that you and your partner had such a life before the arrival of the baby.
5. Hire a babysitter
If possible you should hire a babysitter. Not only will this make you feel less tired, but it will also allow you to spend some alone time with your partner. You can go on a date with your partner, or plan something romantic, like a dinner for two at a fancy restaurant. If you can't afford it, organize a picnic.
Thuê người trông trẻ sẽ giúp bố mẹ có nhiều thời gian dành cho nhau hơn
6. Don't wait for absolute privacy
After having a baby, the two of you alone seem to be gone. So don't expect absolutes. You and your partner need to understand that it is necessary to seize opportunities even when there are children. In a Babycenter survey of 20,000 parents, nearly 60% of them said they had had sex even in the presence of the child.
7. Give each other intimate gestures
The arrival of a child brings joy and happiness to you and your partner, but there will be times when both will feel tired, stressed, even depressed. It is difficult for both of them to have the same feelings as when they were in love. However, you can rekindle your feelings for your partner by sending sweet texts. This will make your partner feel warm.
Or give him time to ride his bike or jog a few laps, so he can relax and get back on his feet. You can also wear sexy clothes.
If you're starting to get upset because you haven't been intimate with your partner in a while, have a frank talk with him. Avoid statements that cause guilt, which can put pressure on your partner. Instead, tell your partner that you want to kiss and touch your partner. Who can be against that?
New parents are more likely to talk about past memories. This is very romantic, but you shouldn't repeat it too often. You need to live in reality, live in reality. Both are going through new challenges in life, to improve the couple's relationship after giving birth, please take care of each other with the smallest actions. This will also help your sex life become more sublimated.
Hai vợ chồng nên coi trọng việc dành cho nhau những hành động thân mật
Vinmec International General Hospital is the address for examination, treatment and prevention of many diseases, including the specialty of Obstetrics and Gynecology. Therefore, if after giving birth, the mother encounters difficulties in taking care of her children, difficulty in recovering her health, and having sex after giving birth, she can come to Vinmec to examine and diagnose diseases to ensure the health as well as the most comfortable psychology for the whole family and for the privacy of the couple. With the dedication and enthusiasm of the medical team, modern facilities will definitely make you satisfied.
Please dial HOTLINE for more information or register for an appointment HERE. Download MyVinmec app to make appointments faster and to manage your bookings easily.
Reference source: babycenter.com
